WHAT TO SPEND?


Time for most parents is the ultimate challenge. That challenge forces most parents to trade time for toys. A toy always has time. The child can play with it again and again without interruption.






How Much To Spend

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The type of toy depends more on the cost than how it fits the child’s age. It has been said the best toy is 90% child and 10% toy. At that ratio, a toy could be a box, pots and pans, a ball, doll, blocks or anything that activates and engages the child’s imagination.

Time on task for a young child is estimated to be one minute per year. So, your two year old will on average focus on a task for two minutes. How about your time on task?  The range for adults is between ten minutes to twenty minutes. I prefer to keep it conservative and use ten minutes.
The equation is simple – determine the intersect of the child’s attention and your time.
Attention = 1 minute per year for a young child
Time = parent availablity is 10 minutes
E.g. two year old has two minutes and you can provide ten minutes. Which means you
could easily spend only five minutes uninterrrupted to be with your child. How can you
leverage those five minutes?
Benjamin Franklin said, “Invest your purse into your head.” The best thing a parent can
spend on his child is love and time. You have the love already and now you know you
do have the time. Your love and your time provides the nuturing for your child to grow-
mentally and emotionally. Your investment in a life is for life. The child’s and yours.


We Learning

My learning needs to transfer to you and to others. To leverage and optimize our learning and the learning of our family members, we need to advance from our obsession with the tradional educational approach of one size fits all. We need to learn to use whatever achieves the learning for each person, personality and learning style. Let’s convert our one dish serves all to a “smorgasbord learning”. This could include computers, self paced learning, learning on demand, team learning, neighborhood learning,etc. I call it “Learning = Always!” The practice is developed 10 minutes every day.



We-Learning

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We can touch others by sharing our experiences and memories. This sharing becomes our “We-Learning”. Will Richardson, Learner in Chief for the Connective Learning Group wrote an open letter to his children Tess and Tucker. Richardson wrote that education may take them into the classrooms and lead to certification but it may also involve learning through games, communitites, and networks built around their interests. “Instead of the piece of paper on the wall that says you are an expert, you will have an array of products and experiences. reflections and conversations that show your expertise, show what you know, make it transparent. It will be comprised of a body of work and a network of learners that you will continually turn to over time, that will evolve as you evolve, and will capture your most important learning.”

I love the possibility of a “network of learners” that supports each of us in our interests and learning styles. So, when we greet each other from text to Twitter, let’s ask “What did you learn today?” The details could include our learning about ourselves, others, the world. Each little learning contributing as new facts and new skills are practiced, applied and taught.

I propose a manifesto as a challenge and a call to arms to claim our right and responisiblity to learn and to teach. We take ownership of the direction and content of our learning. We establish a learning tradition of life-long learnign and a legacy of learning.

THE WE-LEARNING MANIFESTO

I know how my brain is wired to learn.

I know my beliefs, values, interests, and learning style.

I learn what I want at my pace and

I am supported every step of the way.

I teach what I learn to others.

I learn what others teach me.

I help each family member discover their beliefs, values, interests, and learning styles.

We, as a learning community of learners intergrate the best learning processes and programs to support us to learn personally and together in fun and easy ways.